'Even having sexual encounters with other men does not necessarily mean a man is gay.'

4 Basically, many people experiment, and it doesn’t have to mean anything. In one study, the number of people who had had sexual experiences with people of the same gender was twice as many as the number who considered themselves gay or bisexual.

Furthermore, though mainstream society tends to paint attraction as something “black and white” and never-changing (i.e., once you are gay, you are always gay any same-gender attraction means that you’re gay, etc), the reality is that life is just not that simple.Įven having sexual encounters with other men does not necessarily mean a man is gay.